Blush-Off

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I'm Ready

Why am I such a fuckin pusssssssy!!! Literally and metaphorically! I say I'm ready but I'm not! Half of me wants it soooo fuckin bad and the other half says screw this shit!

I've got issues...clearly.... I hate psychic ( entertainment only... Entertainment only) they can be pretty damn convincing cause its all coming together.... Or am I making it come together.

Have you had one of those days! It's 2:31am and I'm talking about being ready, ready for what... To go to sleep :p

I've been packing all fucking day, I feel like I should pay myself to pack for myself. Moving out is great, packing is torture... Emotionally and physically.

Night
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Killin the Batteries

Ever had one of those "ex's" that just constantly calls you even though you don't answer and return their calls? Why do we do such a behaviour? Are we trying to get their attention? Like what is the purpose of calling even though they know YOU clearly don't want to answer their calls?

A buddy of mine told me that one of his lady friends will call him and he will not answer nor return her calls ( hoping she gets the message he doesn't want to talk to her ) so the girl will be calling him non-stop for like an hour or so to just kill his battery so he can't make any calls to any other girls? I am not familiar with this behaviour! Who is guilty of this? And why do y'all keep calling?

Ashley Storm's Hair Piece Creation

I love what our Dear stylist Ashley Storm HANDMADE. After admiring it she decides to give it to me :) I'll def rock it out right! Talented!
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Usher wears em too :)

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Psychics are for Entertainment Only...

I've always dabbled in this type of nonsense, or is this non sense? I've been calling psychics since I can remember and blaming my parents for calling of unknown long distances that they were unaware of. I got my parents in a lot of infidelity issues ( another topic) I went through many phases with psychics wanting to know what my future holds and sometime taking their advice too literally, even though I know it can be "fake". I let it get the best of me so I stopped for a couple of years.

Last June for my birthday we went to Southern Accent for dinner. Southern Accent actually provides psychic readings there as well, which I already knew of this because it was highly recommended from some of my clients. I went with a few girls that night but we did not all do the reading, just myself and Nancy. Everyone thought it was a waste of time and money. Some were scared to hear what KIM ( our psychic) would say - scared of the outcomes.

Before seeing Kim, I mentioned to the ladies, this is for entertainment purposes. Do not go for a reading and base your future on it! Please remember its entertainment purposes only.

Like I mentioned before, I've had gazillion readings before, all very vague, I was young my future was quite predictable etc.... When I sat down with Kim, the first few minutes she blew me away. Here I am in this chair convinced to the things that she was telling me. I nod my head, didn't ask much questions and just listened to what she was "feeling" of my energy. How accurate can your reading be if they are telling you about stuff that never happened. But I will give her some credit as some of her predictions have come true but at the same time I feel that I made that happen as I was convinced that it was going to happen.

I started limiting my selection of the people I started to see, I say its coincidence, but my friends think its because of what Kim said, yes they all have strange patterns in it. I just convince myself I'm attracted to them as a person, but my friends say I'm attracted to something else as per KIM would say. I say coincidence?

My career started to follow as KIM predicted at the same time I used her guidance and assurance in the decisions I was making was right for me... I always thought I was looking out for May, and not paid attention to what she said, although coincidentally it followed through to her predictions. Whether I made it happen on my own or with the influence of her, I don't know but again its kinda trip to think of it now.

Her predictions in my career, love life, family, etc all started to come together, again is it coincidence that it was predicted, did I make it happen all on my own, or did I live through influence?

So..... I met some new friends very addicted and convinced psychic believers that some how convinced me to call California Psychics. I spoke to KIT, and she fuckin blew me away. Convincing myself again this is just for ENTERTAINMENT only, she was able to read my current situation so well. Again. I have chosen that Feb 14 is the last reading I have, yes I made an appointment with my ladies that day, to vow to never do a reading as I get really caught up and bubbly , I can't think straight. And I won't lie, sometimes my decisions gets difficult with the what ifs and I prefer to just live life in my own control. Kit even told me that don't go by her reading but more of assurance. I recommend KIT though :)

So my conclusion is that psychics are entertainment only... Although I can take it too literally sometimes...

M

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Daddy's Home - Usher

Heavy Rotation on my iPod

Valentines Day? For the single

So yea, I dunno - I think this day is over rated. Yeah I'm a hopeless romantic. I can probable out do a lot of people because I have a lot of romantic potential due to my generosity and creativity :p. Everywhere I'm going I see "love". I'm not hating on love, maybe I'm just being bitter and cynical but I'm hating this year! Maybe its because I have no "partner" to share it but I've got some good friends. This year its about the ladies and my ladies planned a great evening for me. One of my girls quoted " Single and ready to mingle, if your cheesy, corny, over rated and over rated - you've got a date with me (her)" I thought it would be a great headline for a personal ad. I guess I'm spending my Vdays with bitter and hopeless women.

So what is over rated or overwhelming? What's sweet and romantic? Damn this topic, I can go for hours.

Trust me I can make you love me and I'll out-do your men and women LOL.

Listen to Bitter May Ha-Ha.

To all you people with loving partners.... I'm not hating enjoy it! Maybe to some of you, you can re-win yourselves and your partner :)
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Casual Dating

I found a great article on casual dating:

Dating Doesn't Have to Be Exclusive

Date Casually until You’re Ready for a Relationship

Oct 22, 2008 Elayne Masters

Maybe you haven't found the right person, or maybe you enjoy dating without the restrictions of commitment. If you prefer casual dating, follow these simple steps.

Whether or not you ultimately want a serious relationship, enjoy the moment while dating more than one person. Singles do not have to be looking for a relationship. It’s okay to date for the sake of dating. There’s a particular pleasure that comes from spending time with the other gender: the different point of view, the delight of feeling attractive as well as attracted, the flirting.

Do you want to date casually yet keep slipping into relationships that don’t work out? Are the relationships simply more involved than you’d like them to be? How can you gain control of your social life? To enjoy casual dating at its best, follow these ground rules.

Keep Intimacy out of Casual Dating

• Casual and intimacy have opposite meanings. Wikipedia defines intimacy as “both the ability and the choice to be close, loving, and vulnerable.” Answers.com defines casual as “not close or intimate.”
• If you truly want to keep things casual, then intimacy is off limits. Yes, that includes physical intimacy.
• As soon as you become intimate with someone, you risk getting emotionally involved. So if you don’t want to get emotionally involved, keep things light-hearted and avoid intimacy.

Resist Getting Too Personal

• Be careful not to expose too much about yourself. This fosters emotional intimacy (see above).
• Exposing extremely personal information allows you to be vulnerable. . It’s one thing to mention the loss of a parent; it’s another to share details. This type of disclosure invites a level of bonding inconsistent with casual dating.
• Sharing your personal stories invites others to share theirs, and they may expect responses from you that you’re not willing to give.

Use Honesty and Tact

• Be up front with your dates about your dating choices and your intentions. You may need to occasionally clarify your position.
• Answer questions honestly, but use discretion. You don’t need to flaunt details about your other dates. Tonight’s date doesn’t need to know that over dinner last night you noticed Billy has the bluest eyes.
• Let them know that it’s okay if they date others as well.

Date, Date, Date!

• The more the merrier applies here. Numbers provide safety to keep you from slipping into a comfortable relationship, and in casual dating, relationship is a dirty word.
• If you’re dating four people instead of two, you will be less likely to get attached to anyone in particular.
• Don’t date anyone too often.
• Avoid long, frequent phone conversations, which tend to lead to . . . you guessed it, relationships!

Don’t think of these rules as restrictive. Casual dating means freedom from commitment, and these rules will ensure your freedom. Keep a copy of them right next to your little black book and your social calendar. It won’t take long before the book and calendar are overflowing with freedom, fun, and opportunity

http://dating-advice.suite101.com/article.cfm/dating_doesnt_have_to_be_exclusiv

We've been Spoiled

Toronto has amazing weather!!!!!! Can't complain!
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